By: Judge Haas
Your children have come into this world because of you.
Perhaps you two made lousy choices as to who you decided to be the
other parent. If so, that is your problem and your fault.
No matter what you think of the other party- or what your family
thinks of the other party- those children are one half of each of
you. Remember that, because every time you tell your child
what an idiot her father is, or what a fool his mother is, or bad
the absent parent is, or what terrible things that person has done,
you are telling the child that half of him or her is bad.
That is an unforgivable thing to do to a child. That is not
Love, it is possession. If you do that to your children, you
will destroy them as surely as if you had cut them into pieces,
because that is what you are doing to their emotions.
I sincerely hope that you don't do that to your children. Think more about your children and less about yourselves and make it a selfless kind of love, not a foolish or selfish love, or your children will suffer.
Judge Haas
Alisha Ankers, Attorney at Law |
|